Stop shoving social media down my throat
May 23rd
It’s time to step up and address one of the great myths pervading the social web — that an essential best practice is decentralizing social media marketing and pushing it down to employees at every level of the company. This is a philosophy that sounds good, but is often detached from practical reality.
I have been immersed in the social web for more than three years. It’s a big part of my job. I teach about it. I consult about it, and of course I write about it. And here is a conclusion that I can confidently make: Social media marketing can be very, very difficult to do successfully.
Why force social engagement?
So why do so many people insist that we should be shoving social media down the throats of employees at every level of the company? This is like forcing me to do accounting. It would not be a good fit … I just don’t have that mindset. Not every person has the right mindset, ability, or openness to succeed with social media but that doesn’t mean they can’t still fit in your company.
Of all the people I interact with on the social web, I would say I am most in-tune with Jay Baer. He is a true intellect and I highly recommend a regular dose of his blog Convince and Convert. But we disagree somewhat on this point.
I’m not picking on Jay … his viewpoint is widespread. But his recent post Speak No Evil – Why Trust Isn’t a 4 Letter Word in Social Media, is a good focal point for the issue.
A hiring problem?
Jay concludes that “it’s everyone’s job to represent the company on the social Web” and that if you don’t have employees who can represent you, ”you don’t have a social media problem, you having a hiring problem.”
The underpinning of this hypothesis is that every employee should be both skilled and trustworthy on social media or you are not running your company well. This logic gets further twisted for me with claims that people are communicating stupid things to the outside world in emails any way … so why not trust them to put it out into public on the social web? Seems like apples and oranges. Emails don’t go viral. Just ask NFL player Rashard Mendenhall.
Should everybody tweet?
Jay uses the example of Mendenhall and his recent litany of tweets that were outside mainstream American thinking.
Let’s look at the Mendenhall example. Yes, he was out of step with mainstream thought. But who isn’t to some degree? The man was hired to carry a football toward a goal line, not necessarily to “stay on message” during a news event. So did the Steelers make a ”hiring mistake” because he sends out stupid tweets? No. The guy is one of the best football players on earth.
Part of the ”social media is for everybody” myth is that we should humanize our companies — trust people to be themselves and everything will be OK. Again, this is just too simplistic and disconnected from reality. You just might get what you ask for, as the Steeler ownership discovered.
I work with an extraordinarily gifted man who is one of the best sales people I have ever met. He is kind of “folksy,” maybe even leaning toward redneck. But he is a perfect fit for his marketplace and there is nothing he would not do to serve his customers. The man is a star and he has single-handedly built up his business — he’s probably the most valuable employee in the whole company.
Putting this fella into the public social media spotlight 140 characters at a time would be a disaster. I imagine his tweets would come across as incredibly embarrassing — taken out of the context of the individual and his environment. Does this company have a “hiring issue?” Of course not! His customers understand and love his quirky humor but that doesn’t mean the whole world would. Here is what I would say to him — “You just keep selling your heart out buddy. Don’t worry about Twitter.”
Uniform political correctness is impossible
When consultants pontificate that every employee should have enough common sense to be on the social web, what they are really saying is we need to hire people who are always politically correct. Which of course will create the most boring, ineffective companies — and who would even want to work there? Not every employee has good judgment about everything — especially when we are turning them into public spokespersons.
Before you drink the Kool Aid on this perspective of “cover the world with social media,” ask yourself one question. Think about some of the best bosses and employees you have ever had. Would they take naturally to the social web? And if not, does that make them a bad hiring decision?
Let’s put this into a practical context
Theoretically I agree with Jay. But I think applying social media effectively requires business sense and balance. We wouldn’t force everybody into a sales role. We wouldn’t put everybody into the glare of the six o’clock news in a PR role. Why would we set an expectation that everybody should be able to have a role in social media or that is a sign that we have a “hiring problem” if we don’t? Being adept at social media is NOT EASY for everybody. And we should be able to live with that human diversity.
Instead I think it makes sense to encourage social media participation in the context of the goals of the company, the available resources, the competitive environment, and the talents of the employees:
- I agree with Jay that the PR or marketing department hasn’t cornered the market on social media greatness. Certainly employees can become online ”beacons” for your brand, but don’t force them to do it or dismiss it as a “hiring problem” if they don’t want to blog or participate in Twitter.
- Acknowledge that social media participation is going to occur, sanctioned or not. An explicit social media policy is a must.
- If employees do want to be formally active on the part of a company, give them the training and guidelines they need to do it well. Explain how it connects to strategy and the implications of representing the voice of the company.
- With the increasing importance of social participation, start adding this to the job requirements of new employees, if that is key to their role in the company. For example, I certainly would not care if a star engineer doesn’t want to blog. You know, some people have to be about the business of actually making stuff. Again — “context.”
What do you think?
So I absolutely recognize and appreciate the opportunity that Jay and others put forth, but I think this nuance is important – It’s not that everybody SHOULD be a marketing voice for you company. It’s that everybody COULD be a marketing voice for your company depending on context. This approach simply recognizes human diversity and that an employee can be extremely valuable … even if they don’t participate in the social web. What do you think?
Not Everyone Knows as Much as You Do About Social Media
May 21st
A guest post by David Lifson …
Small business owners. They’re an impressive group that must handle every element of their operation – from accounting to inventory, and hiring to firing.
Maybe the most important part of the business they need to manage? Marketing.
As we continue to define and quantify the value of social media marketing, small business owners are slowly joining the party. However, we have to remember that they aren’t here in mass yet. In truth, the number of small business owners who understand, use, and capitalize on social media marketing is minuscule. Yet that’s something we tend to forget, which in turn, widens the gap between the evangelizers and innovators of social media. We continually have to put ourselves in their shoes. And when we do that, we really need to understand the hurdles that they’re facing when it comes to social media marketing. So let’s look at few obstacles… and what we can do to overcome them.
Newness
It’s important to remember that social media marketing is still new. It’s difficult to tell a small restaurant owner that they should scrap their 25 year old phonebook ad and fire up a Twitter account. And it’s safe to say that the majority of them are thinking “Why should I blog?” (they may also be asking what a blog is, for that matter). Either way, it’s important they feel comfortable. Let me explain: you know that feeling you get when someone rambles on about a new technology that you know nothing about and then that person acts mystified that you aren’t in the know? That’s how most small business owners feel when people talk about social media. And it doesn’t feel good. Social media marketing evangelizers and innovators need to remember that not everyone lives in the tech world. When on-boarding small business owners, keep that caveat in mind.
Time Commitment
The beauty of that 25 year old phone book ad is that it’s been on cruise control for 25 years. It requires minimal time investment. Social media on the other hand, is perceived as some abyss for small business owners to get lost in. They “heard from a friend of a friend that the guy who runs the hardware store down the street got lost in Facebook last week and hasn’t been seen since.” And to be honest, small business owners who don’t have someone to tackle their marketing also lack the extra time to spare on social media. Instead, it needs to become a small part of their day, like going through email or balancing cash drawers. The best way for the small business owner to take a proactive role in the social media marketing is to carve out a schedule. Spending 10 minutes a day, three days a week parsing through comments, mentions and reviews can be a great way to start. Think of it this way — why not do your social media posting and updating during your coffee break?
Fear
For the small business owner, social media marketing still has that wild west feel. From pondering what their first tweet should be to dealing with less-than-friendly reviews on Yelp, small business owners are scared they’ll do the wrong thing. Some don’t want to do anything at all. One way they can combat this when first dipping their toe in is to just listen. It’s important to get a feel for how they’re perceived in the social web. It might make sense to scope out what their competitors are doing in social media. (Nothing turns fear to fight like a little competition, right?) Set some Google alerts, search by keyword on Twitter, get a feel for what people are saying. Listening to what customers and influencers are saying on the different social media channels can help small business owners overcome the fear that they may feel when first diving in.
Value
We’ve heard it time and time again: “How does social media marketing impact my bottom line?” Small business owners are accounting for every penny and every hour. Time spent doing something that doesn’t directly impact their bottom line is often eliminated, and quickly. The way to scale this hurdle is twofold. First, explain that social media levels the field. Customers can interact with businesses and vice versa. Reiterate that. Social media gives small business owners the ability to interact with their customers. Secondly, to get a sense whether or not social media is having any financial impact, small business owners need to understand if their traffic is coming from social channels. Train cashiers to ask how customers heard about the shop. Have a customer email list? Poll them to find out what social networks they use.
It helps to remind ourselves every now and then that the vast majority of small business owners still see some major roadblocks when it comes to social media marketing. And that’s OK. What’s important though is that we help them out. Show them around. Don’t talk down to them. On-board them in a way that’s… well… social.
David Lifson is the CEO of Postling (postling.com), a web tool that helps small business owners manage social media marketing. Follow Postling on Twitter at @postling.
How to explain social media to your spouse
May 19th
I loved Amber Naslund’s recent post about the always-on, world of digital media. As she correctly said, The New World of Work Includes Social Media.
But here’s the problem. That’s easy for ME to say.
It’s easy for Amber to say.
But is it easy for you to explain to your spouse? How do you explain why you always need to be tethered to the Internet?
Before I get into the heart of the post, you have to promise me something. Actually, three things:
- You are not a workaholic/addictive personality using social media as an excuse to avoid your family. This is not a post about time management. This is a post about sensitively handling a shift in a person’s lifestyle.
- You are not playing World of Warcraft or Farmville and explaining it to your spouse as social media research, and
- You are responsibly trying to have a balance with family life most of the time. That’s important.
If you can agree to these things, I think you’re probably just a stressed marketing pro like the rest of us trying to hang on and stay afloat. If that’s the case, here are some ideas to explain to your spouse why you don’t have a 9-5 job any more.
Prepare martinis. No, that’s really not the first thing to do. The real first step is to “listen.” But if I wrote “listen” you would skip over this paragraph and that would be a big mistake, so I tricked you. I know you, don’t I?
Seriously. You need to just shut up. Don’t explain anything at first. If your spouse doesn’t understand why you spend so much time on the social web, let them express their feelings and frustrations FIRST. This doesn’t mean be quiet and prepare to speak, this means authentically connect and try to truly understand what is going on. Don’t rule out that they may be right. Maybe you ARE over-doing it. P.S. Don’t skip this step.
Empathize. This would be expressed in words like: “Wow. I can see how much this is impacting you. I would probably feel the same way.” Or, “I had no idea this was having this kind of an affect on you.” It’s important that you acknowledge the feelings of the other person as being legitimate.
Lead with feelings. Yes guys, that means you too. How does it make you FEEL to be immersed in social media marketing? Energized? Depressed? Excited? Renewed? Overwhelmed? Leading with these kind of words will help set the stage so you can have a non-defensive discussion. You can’t really argue with feelings. They just are.
Don’t explain, show. Chances are you’ve tried to explain what is going on before. Doesn’t work, does it? There is no way people can understand why social media is so time consuming unless they SEE it. Let them into your world. And before you have your talk, do a little homework. Have this ready:
- Something to make an impression that the marketing world is changing relentlessly. The Qualman “shift” video is always good for something like this and I’m sure you can recommend others.
- Be able to demonstrate your typical routine on each social platform. Show how it is connected to your work, your income and your future. Explain why there are no shortcuts.
- Give examples of how quickly the technology is changing. Don’t make them read. Show graphs and videos where you can make quick, bold impressions demonstrating urgency and change. Mine Mashable for that stuff.
Be honest. Chances are, the time you spend on the social web is not going to lessen. Let’s face it. These productivity tools only pull us into new niches and corners and rabbit holes. The world is getting faster, not slower.
Tune in to priorities. Be prepared to make a concession to important needs. When are the times you absolutely, positively need to put the smartphone down? Dinner? Vacation? Playtime with the kids? Sunday mornings? Listen intently, respond compassionately, keep your promises.
Follow-up. Check-in every other week or so and see how things are going on this issue. Are you keeping your promises?
OK. Help fill in the gaps for me. How are you handling the workload and explaining social media immersion to your family?
P.S. I have an urge to provide a little explanation here. Sometimes when I read “self help” oriented blog posts I think … “who are you to be giving advice?” For the record, I do have a masters degree in applied behavioral sciences and spent a lot of time with conflict resolution. I don’t write about this stuff too often but I will probably be getting into those areas now and then because it is interesting to me.








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