Archive for October, 2011


OK. 30,000 followers. Now what?

Back in college I had this hilarious geology professor who told me that “tsunami” was Japanese for “Where in the hell did all that water come from?”

That’s kind of how I feel about life on the web at the moment. I just hit 30,000 followers. That’s crazy.

Two years ago, I started a tradition of documenting my social media journey and at each major milestone, I write a post describing what it is like and how things are going.  I just hit 30,000 followers so it is time to reflect on the situation.

When I started writing this post, it started out describing the mechanics of connecting with so many followers but it morphed into a psychological self-examination.  I decided to cut out the parts about Twitter tips and expose the raw edge because there has been a significant personal development since my last “journey” blog post.

In a very small way, in a very small niche, I am achieving an element of celebrity.  I have a gag reflex even saying that, but I can’t be honest without describing it that way.  And I’m not handling this situaiton so well.

The tribe grows

First, the numbers.  Friends and followers has grown as I mentioned, but is also escalating. It took me 18 months to get 10,000 followers, a year for 20,000 and six months for 30,000.  This is being fueled by teaching, speaking, The Tao Twitter, and the blog.

My virtual assistant and I continue to prune the spammers. If I didn’t do that I would probably have 100,000 followers by now.  I love the fact that, to the best of my knowledge, all my Twitter followers are real people.  So the number is big, but the tribe is real, and amazing!

Whether it is because of the “social proof” of the numbers or (hopefully) the way I am connecting with people through my speaking and writing, people are starting to describe me as an “A-Lister.”  This makes me cringe.  I walked into a room last week and somebody said “here’s the superstar.”  Some people tell me they are “fans.”  Others have said they are afraid to talk to me.

This is a deeply uncomfortable situation.  I am just a guy writing a blog, a husband, a father, a friend, a son, a brother, a teacher, a writer, a business adviser.  That’s plenty for me. That’s a good place to be.

Celebrity as a mindset

This notion of “celebrity” exists in people’s minds and there is nothing I can do about that, but here is my wish:  I want you to know that I am no more worthy than you … or anybody, for that matter. Every person is amazing in their own way.

I know when people use these terms they are meant with affection and I want to handle it with grace but boy I am out of my element with this fan stuff. And it’s about to get much worse.

This situation is going to be profoundly more challenging when my new book comes out in a few months (will be announcing this in a few days when the title is finalized).  Here is my promise on the book — It is going to be unlike any other book you have ever read on business and marketing.  You are going to love it.  And I know that to do a good job for my publisher McGraw Hill, I’m going to have to be in the spotlight. In fact, I will need to seek it.

That “40,000 milestone report” I will be writing for you a few months from now is going to be interesting.  How do I promote myself and this book without coming across as a jerk?  I am seriously concerned about this. It goes against the grain.  I love to write, teach, and help businesses grow, but I don’t seek to be a “celebrity.”  Increasingly, that seems impossible to avoid.

The results of the experiment?

Now I know this seems improbable.  You may be thinking … “Geez you idiot, how can you expect to write a book and not have to deal with the spotlight?”

I have been simply following what seems like a natural path. Consulting and teaching led to the blog. The blog led to The Tao of Twitter, which took off like a rocket. That book led to more speaking and exposure. New ideas formed and I started writing the next book. And then, I looked up and people were calling me an “A-Lister.”  Ummm …. what???

People go into acting to become famous. People run for office to achieve power.  I did not start the blog to become a celebrity. It was an experiment.

And here is what the experiment proved.  With content and an engaged network, anybody can have influence now. Even me.

So it is what it is.  I know that as long as I am engaging and writing, people will have this expectation of me and that’s the way it will be from now on. So I need to view this as a privilege and deal with it gracefully.

This turned into a stream of consciousness blog post, eh? Maybe too weird? Oh well.  I decided to let it rip.  Yes, this is one of those times I wondered about pushing the “publish” button.  I exposed the edge and took a risk but I trust you guys.

Are celebrities made or born?  Do you have to have a certain kind of personality to thrive in the spotlight?

I know I can stay centered in my personal life, but is it possible to find joy outside the comfort zone?  How do I re-frame this situation so I can stop cringing every time somebody puts me in the spotlight?

5 great resources for social marketers, and one bad one

I have finally had a little free time to plow through my stack of books and wanted to pass along five little tomes you will love and one that you won’t.

Marketing White Belt: Basics For the Digital Marketer

I love, love, love this book by braniac Christopher S. Penn. One of the themes you have seen consistently here on {grow} is an emphasis on marketing fundamentals. Social is just a channel. To succeed you need to know more than creating a Facebook page. This book fills a gaping need for solid marketing fundamentals. If you are just starting out and want to be a marketer, please read this book! Christopher is such a smart guy and a natural teacher. You’ll really enjoy White Belt.

The NOW Revolution: 7 Shifts to Make Your Business Faster, Smarter and More Social

By Jay Baer and Amber Naslund –  I actually read this book months ago and continue to refer to it and recommend it in my college classes. This is an old-fashioned business book. It’s not flowery examples wrapped around a solitary idea. NOW is a legitimate framework for social media success in an organization.  If I had one recommendation, it is that the book should have been longer to cover the rich subject matter.  For example, NOW begins with an emphasis on the importance of a company culture that enables social media.  This is spot-on thinking and they could have written an entire book on just that one subject … and I hope they do!

Launch: How to Quickly Propel Your Business Beyond the Competition

By Mike Stelzner –  The title is a bit precocious for the book’s actual subject matter … which is really the importance and mindset of content marketing.  But hey, content is king on the social web and this is the place to learn about that.  Stelzner, the founder of the wildly successful Social Media Examiner, should know.  He tells the story of how content — and the right mindset to use it — transformed his life.  Launch explores the ideas of content from every imaginable perspective.  It is the definitive handbook for creating and managing content for business success.

The Future of Commerce

Last year I got to meet Grégory Pouy, one of France’s leading business bloggers, and he let me know he was working on an eBook project.  I figured, oh we all need more social media eBooks, right?  Little could I imagine that he was developing an authoritative FREE reference on eCommerce, filled with great case studies and facts presented in a very entertaining way.  I have no idea why he’s not CHARGING for this but let’s not question it. I guarantee you will want to bookmark this resource and share it with your friends and clients!

Zero Moment of Truth

I got turned on to this eBook by a buddy at Coca-Cola who swears by it.  That got my attention!  This little book, written by Jim Lecinski, Google’s Managing Director of US Sales, provides an interesting perspective of Google’s view of real-time consumer marketing. Company puff piece?  Maybe, but this is an eye-popping multi-media experience filled with insights and relevant case studies.  And hey, it’s FREE!  Yes, ZMOT is informative, but I’d like you consider this book on another level — how is this a brilliant example of brand building through content marketing?

We Are All Weird

So I told you there would be a book in this line-up that was not so great and this is it – We Are All Weird by Seth Godin. I admire Seth of course but I have not been able to figure out his last two books.  In “Weird” there are just so many strange leaps of logic that I honestly wonder if Seth is testing us.  Is this an experiment to see if people will buy books from a famous person, even if they make no sense?

Here’s an example of the circular logic in the book. The book’s basic theme is that mass marketing and merchandising are dead.  However, he also says that the efficiency of mass marketing and merchandising is the very thing enabling the wealth to purchase expensive niche market goods.  Huh?  Doesn’t sound like it’s dead to me.

Godin also marvels at the disintermediation and market efficiency of the Internet that is now connecting obscure goods with niche buyers. Welcome to the 1990s, good sir.

It seems to me that Seth looked around New York City, wondered at the glorious panapoly of goods available in this metropolis and declared it a worldwide trend.  Mr. Godin, I would invite you to explore middle America where our commerce is generally governed by Wal-Mart and Taco Bell. Of course you will find weird people there, too.

These are a few from my reading list.  What books are making an impact on you these days?

Disclosures: I received free review copies of Launch, The Now Revolution, and We Are All Weird. The links to the books that are not free are affiliate links.  I consider Jay Baer a personal friend but would still rip his butt if he deserved it.