A PR 2.0 Success Story: How I Became a Mommy Blogger
Jan 13th
This is a true story. The names have been changed to protect the innocent. Wait, no they haven’t.
The Mommy Blogger Genre is generally not a pool I would splash around in, but I was doing research for a class and I was blown away by the facts and figures about this subculture. Check it out:
- There are 42 million women involved in social media weekly — and about half of them are moms with children at home. Of those, about 11.5 million moms are actively taking part in the blogosphere.
- According to the Consumer Electronics Association report, U.S. moms are more active on social networks than any adult demographic. Moms spend an average of 111 hours online, and one in three moms regularly post product reviews.
- Cision noted that “Mom bloggers are extremely vital to the new media landscape,” and that they “use new media like nobody’s business.”
- Nielsen compiled a list of the 50 most influential mommy bloggers and further dissected the genre into six sub-categories: Queen Bees, Savvy Spenders, Mom-Approved Reviewers, Mamastes, Tech Moms and CEO Moms.
During my research I discovered that General Mills has set up a blog network specifically to serve this group called MyBlogSpark. Mommy Bloggers in the program have insider access to General Mills product freebies.
Wait a minute. FREEBIES? You mean I could get my hands on some limited edition Cheerios or something? Maybe some Chipotle Hamburger Helper? Baby SIGN ME UP!
And that’s how I officially became a Mommy Blogger. You had me at Häagen-Dazs.
I LOVE the idea behind this blogger outreach program. This is a classic case of PR 2.0 and General Mills seems to be doing it right:
- They’re not depending on tired product pitches to get their news out. Influencers are right in the middle of the product introductions. They’re involved with the company and the products.
- They are running an upfront and ethical shop, encouraging bloggers to be transparent about how they receive samples.
- The company asks to be contacted directly for feedback if bloggers don’t feel they can write a positive review. This seems like enlightened brand management.
- General Mills is creating loyalty and community by highlighting and rewarding outstanding bloggers.
There’s been just one little problem so far. I’ve been in the program for more than a month and have yet to receive a single product sample. In fact the only thing I have received was a link to a lame Jolly Green Giant Holiday video.
C’mon. I want some crackers. Throw me some beans or something guys. This Mommy Blogger is ready to rock.
What’s your take on this new blogger outreach program?
Is it OK to fake your tweets?
Jan 11th

The other day a prominent Twitter celebrity was kind enough to re-tweet one of my blog posts. It was not Kim Kardashian. At least that time. Any way, because of his power and influence, my link was promptly re-tweeted by 12 of his followers. Wow, that’s influence right?
Only problem is, in that period of time, my server was down. None of them could have possibly read my blog post.
Welcome to the world of fake tweeting.
How often does this happen?
I’m guessing more than we could possibly realize. How many people are either tweeting without reading … or not even tweeting themselves at all?
Tweeting — The Industry
I recently was asked by a well-known business professional to help them get started on Twitter. The person had been flailing about and frustrated, simply broadcasting news about their business and products. It was mind-numbing.
After a couple of hours of training and re-setting her social media mindset, her tweets were transformed and the engagement was much more successful. Then suddenly the whole thing flopped again. She went back to broadcasting mindless self-serving tweets. I scolded the person and asked what happened. “Oh I went on vacation and turned my tweeting over to the ad agency.”
This is happening everywhere. Fake tweeting for people has become a cottage industry. I think it’s safe to say that a high percentage of tweets are disconnected from real people, broadcasting links that were never read and are little more than the results of automated programs.
Again, it’s impossible to have data on this, but based on my experience, I think the problem is also growing exponentially.
And maybe I contribute to the issue, too. I do “blind tweet” under one circumstance: If somebody I know well and trust completely asks me to tweet a link as a favor, the link is time-sensitive, and I simply don’t have time to read it first. So yes, in a way, I’m part of the problem.
Does anybody care?
Or is it a problem at all? Isn’t there a place on Twitter for everybody? Who made the “rules” any way?
Don’t you always have the option to un-follow people who are obviously not engaging as themselves? Are we simply being close-minded and elitist by claiming that Twitter is all about “the conversation” and “authenticity?” Do you tweet without reading? Fake your tweets?
I have my own views, but I’d like to hear your take on it. The comment section is yours …
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Five Hidden Secrets of Social Media Failure
Jan 9th
2011 will be a year when many marketing professionals hit the social media re-set button. After climbing aboard the “engagement train” for fear of being left behind, many marketers will come up empty when they try to explain what they actually achieved for the money. The honeymoon is over. Show me the money.
This theme of social media failure was recently addressed by PR Smart Guy Brian Solis. I usually agree with Brian but his recent post seems overly-simplistic. Let’s explore this vital issue and fill in some of the points that Brian overlooked. Why are the majority of social media efforts failing?
1) THE MYTH OF PLANNING
Brian seems to equate a lack of planning with a failure to have goals. I think these are distinct problems.
Rather than lack of planning, one common source of social media failure is OVER-PLANNING. I mean if there is one thing corporations really know, it’s planning! Every major goal has a 2-5 year forecast attached to it, doesn’t it? But that’s the fatal flaw.
- Many companies don’t have a corporate culture ready to adjust marketing tactics month-to-month. What was the last major platform shift in television advertising? Cable? The idea that the medium is shifting right under your feet is unfamiliar. Not only are the channels evolving rapidly, the rules of engagement are changing too! You can’t plan for that. Would your company devote half its social media budget to a category called “we don’t know yet?”
- The other cultural aspect contributing to failure is that the real opportunities on the social scene may not present themselves in what we’ve planned to do (i.e. “We’ll take out an ad and hope people come to my sale”). With new media, commercial opportunities appear in the moment (I just found a person who needs our product - let’s make a deal and get the business.”). Are you organized for In The Moment Marketing? Authority for service, sales, sometimes even pricing, may need to be pushed down to the level of the organization dealing with the buzz every day.
2) NOT JUST GOALS — METRICS
Brian wisely states that “accountability, metrics, and outcomes serve as the foundation for social media success.” But that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Goals drive EVERYTHING so the TYPE of metric you choose is more important than the tactics you put into place to achieve them.
The problem rests in the fact that many companies will only believe results that can be displayed on an Excel spreadsheet. But if you’re only relying on quantitative results, you’re missing the real beauty of the social web. Many of the business benefits of social media can only be captured through qualitative measures. If you’re interested in learning more, I recommend:
- Explaining the ROI of Twitter
- Social media measurement: Sometimes a picture is worth a thousand tweets
- Three reasons why the experts are wrong about social media measurement
3) WHY THE BOSS MATTERS
“Social media strategy must gain attention from the very top of the organization and see its integration across relevant business teams,” says Brian.
Social media initiatives must get more than mere attention from the top. They must be sponsored from the top. There is no such thing as a grassroots strategic initiative.
Many failures occur from trying to do too much too quickly. Rather than integrate “across business teams” Success is far more likely by planning achievable goals, publicizing quick wins, and then shaming laggards into adoption. Rolling something out across the company will smell like a “program of the month.”
4) BEYOND MARKETING
Brian points to an eMarketer report that shows adoption is taking place primarily in the marketing departments. He says that to be successful, companies need look at every department that engages publicly — HR, legal, environmental, etc. — and apply these tools. I agree but will also take it a step further.
In addition to looking at these obvious external applications, the more potent business benefit might be using social networking platforms INTERNALLY. The technology is mature and people love to use these tools. Think of the opportunities for collaboration, knowledge management and innovation if we could connect employees in a far-flung global enterprise! I think this is the next big thing in social media. Applying internally may be less risky than leading with a public social media showcase.
5) THE CURSE OF THE SOCIAL MEDIA KNOW-NOTHINGS
One reason for failure overlooked by Brian is the drastic mis-match between social media resource availability and need. This is such a new area and the parameters are constantly shifting. The market is flush with social media know-nothingswho have little knowledge of business or marketing, let alone a track record of measurable success. If you’ve assigned social media marketing to the intern or the person with the most Facebook friends, this might be a root cause of failure too!
That’s my take on the subject. What are your thoughts? The comment section is now open for YOU!
Has social media stalled? Literally.
Jan 7th
My daughter Lauren has made several popular blog appearances before here on {grow} including one of the top posts of 2010: “Snooping on Facebook: Not just for stalkers any more.”
So when she said wanted to contribute one of her own blog posts on the origins of social media I jumped at the chance. Little did I realize that while away at college she has acquired quite a “potty mouth” …
For months I have heard lectures, read blogs, and attended seminars about the transformational impact of social media. But something seemed so familiar … as if I’ve witnessed this type of social community before.
And then I realized.
While the term “social media” might have been coined with the rise of Facebook, Twitter, and blogs, these sites are mere copies of the original collaborative social networking — the bathroom stall.
Since the invention of the stall, urination stations have been popular among angst-ridden teenagers, vengeful girlfriends, and drunk guys for excreting news. While they might not realize their remarks are more than a mild case of crapper vandalism, they are actually contributing to a forum comparable to the modern social media we know today:
Wall Posts: Well … they are literally posting on walls, aren’t they? Examples might include a poem, current events commentary, or remarks towards the community such as “Happy Birthday Brittany!” or “Brittany is a bitch.”
Tags: See Wall Posts. For example “Brittany” is tagged in this wall post and will hereby be referred to as Brittany.
Comments: When conversation is started on a Wall Post, members of the community frequently add their own comments.
A recent comment stream:
Happy Birthday Brittany!
1 day closer to death
luv u 4 eva Britt
It’s my birthday 2!!!
Product reviews: The idea for public reviews did not start with Yelp. “For a good time, call Stacy.” ‘Nuff said.
News Feed: Sharing news … like this:
So the next time someone gets on their high horse about how social media is flushing away traditional media, just remember — this is really just a variation on a very old theme.
And don’t forget — knife storms today.
Lauren Schaefer is a senior studying PR and marketing at Indiana University. She is seeking employment opportunities in marketing and event planning ; ) Follow her on Twitter @leschaef











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