In the spirit of the holiday season, I would like to tell you a little Christmas story.

For the past three years, I’ve mentored a bright young boy named Elijah.  Elijah is growing up in small, crowded house with his three brothers and a sister (all by different fathers — none of them are around). There is also an unrelated 12-month-old baby from another unwed mother being raised in this household.

I started working with Elijah through an organization called Amachi, which pairs adult role models with at-risk kids who have at least one parent in prison. Elijah’s father was murdered when he was two.  His mother was serving several years in a federal penitentiary when I became involved with the family.

Elijah is fortunate in many ways. He is being raised in a loving home by his grandmother. His clothes are always clean and he’s never hungry. His grandmother Patsy suffers from a variety of health problems but manages to get those kids to school every day. She often works until 2 in the morning cooking and cleaning and is almost always exhausted.  When I asked her where she would want to go on a vacation some day, she said it would not matter because all she would do is sleep. In my book, she is a true hero.

Sometimes it’s frustrating to love Elijah so much because he is in such a challenging situation.  Last year, the house next door to his was raided for drugs. Another day, he was telling me about a cousin who was stabbed 20 times and died. Last year a relative took him on “a walk” and then abandoned him alone in the middle of the city, five miles from his house (without money or a cell phone).

When I hear about these things, I feel helpless.  Really the only thing I can do is support him and teach him how to make good decisions.  When I started working with him when he was just seven, he asked me if I would teach him how to be a man.  I think about that every single time I see him and I am determined to do that.

With Christmas approaching, he is excited like every other kid. When I asked him what he wanted for Christmas, he got shy and started drawing a square in the air. We often play little guessing games like this so I tried to guess what kind of a box he was making with his fingers.

“Is it a an X-Box?” I asked?

He shook his head no.

“A Playstation?  Is it a special kind of racing game that comes in a box?”

Again, he shook his head no. Finally I had to give up. I had no idea what he was trying to tell me.

“It’s a door,” he said. “Just a door.”

Now you might want to know why a 10-year-old kid would want a door for Christmas.  With his house so jam-packed with people, Elijah is sleeping in a dining area next to a living room.  Because the dining area has no door, he is awake all night from the sounds of the television and anything else that might be going on with the various adults who might be in the house. So he wants a door so he can go to sleep.

Well, obviously if he needs a door, I am going to get him a door. But here is where I would like to ask for your help.

There are so many other children in need who do not have a mentor to help them with their homework, teach them how to be a man (or woman), or install a door so an awesome child can get some sleep.

Here’s what I want you to consider: I’m here for you every day.  I’ve written almost 1,000 blog posts and have never asked for a single favor.  If you love me, if you love this blog and this community, please donate a few dollars to Amachi today so this organization can keep doing the important work of matching caring people with children who desperately need a loving adult in their lives.

The door’s on me. And here’s what else I’ll do. I’ll match every penny the {grow} community donates to Amachi up to $1,000. This is a national charity that is turning lives around.  Please help by sharing this post and considering a small donation (by pushing the button below) if your budget allows it.  Thank you and Merry Christmas!

Update: If you are just stumbling on to this post, you can find out how this project went here: “The Results Are In: An Experiment in Social Influence. The final total raised was $5,900. but if you care to donate, I will leave this Donation button “on” and will pass 100% of all donations on to the Amachi Charity.

Also, when I delivered our first check to Amachi, Elijah and I visited the Amachi Office with the surprise donation. You can watch the video here: Amachi video.

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